Getting It Together With Lorrah

Relationship problems at a later stage become family affairs...In as much as marriage is for two,the decisions two of you make behind closed doors will end up having a positive or negative impact on others... It's better not to marry than to marry wrong...We might begin relationships out of LOVE but LOVE does not keep a marriage together..It can't hold it up..You cant marry for love alone... It's not enough... Ever heard someone say" I love her ,but I can't stand her" , "I love him but I can't keep up with him" ,Your love feelings or whatever you call it for that person might still be intact... But with all the love,you might be unable to love your other right... Proverbs 24:3 says "Through wisdom a house is built; and by understanding it is established:" to cut my long story short... In as much as love might be present... If your relationship lacks understand and Wisdom building might be impossible...with wisdom you can live together e...

Sometimes wrong feels right... Even right sometimes feels wrong... What do i do 🤦 Should i, Should i not... These are the hardest things to ever feel in a relationship...But we all have times of such confusion...  The devil tempers around with our happiness all the time, We also temper on our own with what we love the most every now and then...Not every wrong deed signifies absence of love.. One thing i can tell you is,In the midst of all confusion, forget your feelings... Feelings are chemicals that change every 5 seconds... Don't base on them to make permanent decision... Give them time,you see they always change...So before you even get married to that guy... Give yourself time, Allow yourself to be at your best level of thinking...Every new relationship has a way of bringing on the table exactly what you need... But people have a tendency of not applying the same effort after a certain period of time... Which is why relationships tend to suddenly get boring... Now instead of b...

It's not selfish to put yourself first... It's self-full ... Always be willing to improve yourself in every way...Often times, people forget themselves...Be Willing to better yourself and definitely you will piss some people off in the process but that's ok,they will get over it... Always be clear about your boundaries, Don't accept the unacceptable for whatever reason...Dont accommodate or tolerate whatever that does not honour you... The whole universe adjusts always and see you as you see yourself...But as you set you set boundaries, always remember you are human and also dealing with humas.. You are not flawless but you are definitely not your flaws.. Allow nobody to treat or judge you based on your past or mistakes,you are not your past, neither are you your mistakes... Nowonder none of those scars have  visible marks on you!!! They're hidden for a reason... They don't define you.. Lastly guard your heart and your mind at all cost...The bible says in Prover...